| Thursdays 8 pm @ St Bartholomew Catholic Church (954) 431-3600 8005 Miramar Prkwy Miramar, Fl 33025 located in school Library sDirections |
| Fridays 8 pm @ St Louis Catholic Church (305) 238-7562 7271 sw 120 st Miami, Fl 33156 located in lecture hall(n. east entrance of church) Directions |
| WHERE ARE YOU OR YOUR LOVED ONE TODAY? 1) PRECONTEMPLATION STAGE "IT ISN'T THAT WE CAN'T SEE THE SOLUTION. IT IS THAT WE CAN'T SEE THE PROBLEM" Precontemplators usually show up in therapy because of pressures from others… spouses, employers, parents, and courts… They resist change. When their problem comes up, they change the topic of conversation. They place responsibility for their problems on factors such as genetic makeup, family, society, destiny, the police, etc. They feel the situation is not a problem. 2) CONTEMPLATION STAGE "I WANT TO STOP FEELING SO STUCK" Contemplators acknowledge that they have a problem and begin to think about solving it. Contemplators struggle to understand their problems, to see its causes, and wonder about possible solutions. Many contemplators have indefinite plans to take action within the next few months. "YOU KNOW YOUR DESTINATION, AND EVEN HOW TO GET THERE, BUT YOU ARE NOT READY TO GO YET" It is not uncommon for contemplators to tell themselves that some day they are going to change. When contemplators transition to the preparation stage of change, their thinking is clearly marked by two changes. First, they begin to think more about the future than the past. The end of contemplation stage is a time of ANTICIPATION, ACTIVITY, ANXIETY, and EXCITEMENT. 3) PREPARATION STAGE Most people in the preparation stage are planning to take action and are making the final adjustments before they begin to change their behavior. Still need a little convincing. 4) ACTION STAGE Stage where people overtly modify their behavior and their surroundings. Make the move for which they have been preparing. Requires the greatest commitment of time and energy. CHANGE IS MORE VISIBLE TO OTHERS. 5) MAINTENANCE STAGE Change never ends with action. Without a strong commitment to maintenance, there will surely be relapse, usually to precontemplation or contemplation stage. WHERE ARE YOU TODAY? |
| Mondays 8:00 pm @ OurLady of Lourdes 11291 sw 142 ave Miami, Fl 33196 located in "THE MEETING ROOM" |



